10 years, then I stopped
Hey Reader November always feels like a long exhale to me. The garden goes quiet, the leaves are disappearing, the evenings close in, and I find myself asking how I'm really doing. Where do I need to slow down and take stock? What do I need to let go of? Two years ago, that honesty found me. In November 2024, I decided to stop teaching yoga. I’d been mulling it over for a few months. After ten years, it had stopped feeding me. It was draining the energy I so badly needed for everything else....
about 11 hours ago • 2 min readI hate this part of my job
Hey Reader I met my yoga BFF Louise for lunch in London. To be more precise, it was the hustle and bustle of Borough Market, at a Middle Eastern cafe called Arabica. We met at yoga teacher training six years ago and became fast friends. I was telling her that I'd recently been on a panel discussing women in AI and how much I dislike public speaking. Actually, I hate speaking in public (it's sooo different than teaching yoga). I do it anyway. But here's what I've figured out: The scary stuff...
8 days ago • 2 min readNot like that, like this
Hey Reader I left a comment on a LinkedIn post this week. I said I'm using AI to get the administrative and production tasks off my plate, and using that freed up time for creativity, strategy and analog stuff. Caroline replied. Analogue astronaut, leadership coach, TEDx speaker. She'd literally started doing that this week. Lead capture, nurture, bios for talks. And for her, it's the trust factor. Making sure it doesn't break anything or go rogue. Yes, I said, the trust factor is key. And...
15 days ago • 3 min readI found five
Hey Reader This week I listened to Alicia Lyttle on a podcast. I was listening whilst walking the dog. I couldn’t wait to get back home to actually view the podcast and see the prompts she was sharing. I'd done her free webinar already. She's super high energy. Before AI, she was the marketing, customer service and tech brain holding businesses together. Listening to her, something clicked. AI is a perfect tool for women. Because we already build systems in our heads every day. We manage the...
22 days ago • 2 min readwhat I actually pay for every month
Hey Reader Earlier in the year, I launched a quiz. Maybe you took it? I was using a quiz platform at 50% off for 3 months. Enough time to trial it, see if it worked for me and decide if I wanted to continue at full price. I'm not gonna lie, it was a sh*t ton of upfront work to build. And my assumptions around the quiz results were off. But the results told me something interesting. The women who answered the quiz knew what they wanted. Their message was clear. They needed help with strategy....
28 days ago • 3 min readscared sh*tless and I did it anyway
Hey Reader On Wednesday night I sat on a panel at Lloyds Banking Group in London. The Female Product Lead and UX Crunch put it on, and the question on the flyer was a big one: is AI pushing more women and underrepresented groups out of tech faster? My friend, Meg, had messaged me just a few days before to ask me to speak on the panel. I was scared shitless. And I said yes. I shared the stage with 3 other speakers and a moderator. We each brought a different perspective with us. Mine was women...
about 1 month ago • 2 min readwe built her a system
Hey Reader I've just finished working with my fourth Brand & Bloom founder. We wrapped up this week, and she is super happy with it. Here's why. We built her a system. She already knew how she wanted to work. One main topic a month, split into four sub-topics, one a week. She had it in a Word doc. So that became the spine of the whole thing. In her words: "upload the Word doc I had of it and boom, done." Then her brand voice, written down. She read it back and said this: "I'm completely...
about 2 months ago • 3 min readI changed my name last week.
Hey Reader Happy September. The light has changed, the garden has peaked, and I've spent the last fortnight quietly tidying things I'd been putting off for months. Not the garden. The online stuff. I made three small changes. None of them took more than an afternoon. All of them were overdue, and all of them come back to the same single reason. I need to focus on what IS working for me. That's Instagram, Substack and of course this newsletter. It's where my people are. Everything else was...
about 2 months ago • 3 min readI followed the instructions. That's it.
Hey Reader I've just finished another Brand & Bloom beta trial. I'm writing this with a cup of tea going cold beside me and the particular kind of tired you only get from doing something properly and taking longer than you thought, but you had to get it right. That's four projects done now. A fifth client is starting soon. And honestly, it's been so much fun. Building an operating system for someone's business is a strange kind of joy. Not a logo and a colour palette, although we do those...
2 months ago • 4 min readI lost 58% of my subscribers
Hey Reader Let me start by saying how much I love Dolly. What a phenomenal woman. She's inspired me in so many ways, but this week, it's to keep showing up as myself and doing what I do. She never watered herself down to be easier to swallow. They told her the hair was too much, the outfits were too much, the whole thing was too much. She kept every bit of it. "Find out who you are and do it on purpose," she said, and then went and did exactly that for sixty years. Dolly was never trying to...
2 months ago • 5 min read