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Keep going, Reader! I believe in you.
I’ll be honest… I’ve been feeling really behind. It’s nearly May, and all those big, beautiful plans I mapped out for 2024? They’re slipping through my fingers.
I had committed to a 30-day Reels challenge (I was all in), had plans to send out weekly newsletters, and felt excited about what I was building this year.
But somewhere around Day 14, I hit a wall.
Too much on my plate. Newsletters skipped. Reels paused. And then… dental work (hello, unexpected root canal).
At first, I felt guilty—like I was falling behind. But then a deeper question emerged: Am I holding onto too much? (sound familiar?)
Sometimes, when things slip, it’s not a sign of failure. It’s a sign that we were never meant to carry it all.
This past week, I’ve been in deep reflection. Who am I becoming? What do I really want to offer? How do I want to show up—consistently, yes—but in a way that honours me?
Which brings me to this week’s message: What does success really mean, and who are we becoming as we build it? ✨
Which brings me to this week’s 3-2-1…
3 mindset shifts to redefine success (especially if you're feeling behind)
1️⃣ From: “What should I do next?” To: “What feels aligned with who I’m becoming?”
2️⃣ From: “What will impress others?” To: “What brings me energy, meaning, and joy?”
3️⃣ From: “How can I do more?” To: “What do I want to create—and who do I want to be while doing it?”
Here's 2 practices to reconnect with your own version of success:
1️⃣ Ask better questions. Instead of chasing what’s next, ask: “Is this aligned with my values?” “Does this energise or deplete me?”
2️⃣ Try the art of letting go. If it’s slipping, maybe it’s not meant to be carried right now. ✨ Here’s a guided meditation I recorded to create more stillness. It’s 10 minutes of breath, grounding, and softening—because clarity often comes when we pause.
2 things i’m loving
✦ The Light Between us by Laura Lynne Jackson - Lessons from the ‘Other Side’ to the living. If you’ve ever lost a loved-one, you know how hard grief can hit you and at any time. This is Laura’s story of living a double life - a New England school teacher and a psychic medium. Grab this book.
✦ How To Actually Achieve Your Goals in 2025 If you need some "stupidly simple", evidence-based, productivity tips and practical life advice, then watch this great (and practical) video tutorial from Ali Abdaal where he shares 5 simple steps to create and monitor your goals.
1 quote for your week ahead
My printed affirmation cards are *almost* ready... I'm just making the final touches to them, and they'll be ready to order. Get on the waitlist if you want your own printed set (with a sweet discount.)
With love and a sprinkle of creativity,
xo, Louise 🫶
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